Tonight at dinner, Marie made a hen and 5 eggs out of her green beans. Brian made three “mans” that were getting squished (by his hand). Most of the green beans actually ended up getting eaten, too. Maybe that’s the secret.
The kids had a wonderful time visiting with Ed, Gail, and Keslie tonight! We had lasagna and played washers and jenga!
this is a re-enactment of what happened when we told Marie & Brian that Billy & Regan were coming over this weekend.
To Marie and Brian,
Someday you will probably be old enough to read the archives of this website. And I hope you do, and it brings some smiles to your face.
Today I ran across a link of a person’s “message to their 3 year old son”:http://zenhabits.net/2008/05/a-letter-to-my-son-on-starting-out-in-life/. It is a nice note, and I hope to write my own similar message to both of you someday. For the meantime, allow me to quote a bit of that one:
bq. Live your life by the rule of love. Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart. Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love. Open your soul to them.
Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in humanity. Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand.
Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy. The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him. He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love.
And most of all, love yourself. While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are.
I don’t like his last paragraph, so let me add my own:
Your mother and I love you, always have, and always will. Our love for you started the day the thoughts of you first entered our minds, and will continue beyond the day you enter the gates of heaven. We will always be with you and there for you, and our love will always guide, protect, and nurture you. You can never be too lost, too afraid, too strong, too proud, too big, or too small to experience our love.
We’ve had a day and a half of wonderful weather and nowhere in particular to go, so Marie and Brian and I have spent hours outside running, playing, chasing squirrels and digging up worms and bugs in the garden. One and a half perfect days.
The other day, they were talking about getting ready to go to a Fiesta with Dora.
*Marie*: Brian, I have to look pretty and you have to look fancy.
*Brian*: No, I have to look *nickylus**! ( _runs away waving arms and making a silly noise_ )
Blessings and best wishes for a Happy New Year to all of our readers who have not stopped reading because we have not updated in a month. December was crazy for us; the first weekend was the madrigal feaste at church, second weekend was Gemini’s company party, third weekend was our caroling party. Christmas was a welcomed break from December’s hustle and bustle.
Since Christmas we’ve been lucky enough to have Uncle Jim, Billy, and Regan come visit, and Gammy and Grandpa will be coming this weekend. So Christmas is being extended for us.
For now I will leave you with an exchange from yesterday:
Brian: I have to poop.
Mom and Dad: OK, go on the potty.
Brian: I want to sit on your lap because I want to poop on you.
Mom: How sweet!
Brian and Marie are lying down on the floor in the piano room, pretending to be babies who are going to sleep. They both have blankets. Marie is using a frisbee as a pillow and Brian is using a tambourine. Comfy!